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The parent class: China parents 9 Wangzichenglong wrong concept of family education in China type parents, children is not the climax of the derivatives, point light is on, in accordance with the scientific configuration steps down everything in good order and well arranged, he’s parents failed to complete the dream of the sequel. I can’t fly, the next egg, let the egg grow up to complete the dream of flying. Can not lose at the starting line for many parents eager to become useful, anxious to start from the fertilized eggs of education, the reason is not to lose at the starting line, anxious to put six hundred poems of the Tang Dynasty was born second days backwards, various interest classes at Xueben, each one is the combination of Song Zuying, Chen Danqing, Liu Xiang, Lang Lang’s body to show your success in education. Don’t go fully into account the nature of children playing, rote learning, a command style education, behind the non intelligence factor to the child’s self-esteem, self-confidence, perseverance and innovation ability to cast. I wonder, too, that the Chinese exam has been distorted twice. Let’s remember what year Gen Gi Khan died and what kind of eggs did he have? What’s even more ridiculous is that I met a question in person, and you found the line that you liked best, but you had the only standard answer. Isn’t that a teacher’s favorite word? The questions in the training of the child how abnormal undoubtedly guess people thought skills. With Xin Ru struggling to gauge the meat Chinese parents must take their own life and tragic humiliation again appeared preaching, all children’s learning way from school children began calling to accompany the child to grow, but in reality is to complete a self lost parabola by monitoring and positioning function of GPS. Lost their living space, just advertised as good parents in china. The next type of Wang he has a good name: also dared. How to fight your life with the best of the next door children, a little negligence is: you see people next door Wang? A little backward pointed out: you see people next door Wang? There is always a high standard bar next door Wang block in front of you, confident in the China child difficult persistence, or confident or conceited, self inferiority to lose. What is a blessing, and so on. Silence is golden to teach children to learn to endure, retreat, everyone is worldly-wise and play safe, smart people, so there will be three Japanese soldiers in Nanjing massacre could kill 3000 people in the theatre of the absurd, Yunnan several knife wielding criminals can kill off dozens of passers miracle. Because everyone is smart, are in disadvantage is a blessing, but life creed, so wait a erlengzi appears to turn the tide, the world is not afraid of bad guys more arrogant, but the good is silent. In the worship of money into a type of the rich Chinese parents, it is The imprint is engraved on my heart.: I was guilty but don’t want to let the children be. So came to eat a ready-cooked meal, good material reward, our pet phrase is you give mom admitted how many points, I will give you what promises. You give? Learning is the idea of learning from parents and it is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. Talking about motivation and interest?! When the pursuit of the outlook on life is transformed into things 家长课堂:中国家长的9种错误家庭教育观念   望子成龙式   在中国式家长那里,生儿育女完全不是性高潮的衍生物,是点上灯照上镜儿,按照科学步骤有条不紊的配置下来的,他是父母未能完成梦想的续集。自己不会飞翔,下一颗蛋,让蛋长大完成自己飞翔的梦想。   不能输在起跑线式   许多家长成材心切,恨不得从受精卵开始就进行教育,理由是不能输在起跑线上,恨不得把唐诗六百首出生第二天就倒背如流,各种兴趣班不惜血本,个 个都是宋祖 英、朗朗、陈丹青、刘翔的结合体方才能显出你教育的成功。完全不会也不去顾及孩子爱玩的天性,死记硬背,一味地命令式教育,将孩子的自尊心、自信心、坚持 性和创新能力等非智力因素抛之脑后。我也奇怪了,中国式考试题目也变态翻倍,非要让记住成吉思汗生于哪年死于哪年,有什么卵用?更可笑的是,我亲自遇到一 个题目,你找出文中你最喜欢的一句话划上横线,结果却有唯一的标准答案。这不成了老师喜欢的一句话了吗?变态考题无疑在培养孩子察言观色猜人心思的技能。   含辛茹苦苦肉计式   中国式父母一定要把自己的生活过的悲情和忍辱负重再能现身说教,一切为孩子的学习让道,从孩子入学开始美名曰陪着孩子成长,实则是用GPS的监控定位的功能完成一次自我失去的抛物线。失去自己的生活空间,方才标榜为中国好父母。   隔壁小王式   他还有个另外的好名字叫:激将法。用隔壁家的孩子如何优秀来打击你一辈子,稍有疏忽就是:你看人家隔壁小王?稍有落后就指出:你看人家隔壁小王?永远有个隔壁小王的高标杆挡在你的面前,自信在中国小孩身上很难持久的存在,要么自信到自负,要么自卑到失去自我。   什么吃亏是福,沉默是金等等屁话   从小教育孩子要学会忍受,退让,明哲保身,每个人都是聪明之人,所以才会出现南京大屠杀三个日本兵能干掉3000老百姓的荒诞剧,云南几个持刀 歹徒能杀掉几 十个路人的奇迹。因为人人都是聪明人,都在信奉吃亏是福、沉默是金的人生信条,所以都等着一个二愣子出现力挽狂澜,这个世界不怕坏人有多嚣张,就怕好人有 多沉默。   变相拜金主义式   摇身一变成了有钱人的中国父母,刻骨铭心的话就是:我受过的罪可是不想让儿女再受。所以衣来伸手饭来张口,成绩好了物质奖励,我们的口头禅就是 你给妈妈考上 多少多少分数,我就给你什么什么承诺。你给?学习是给父母学的理念深入人心。谈何动力和兴趣?!当人生观的追求转化成物质上的贪婪,我们又从何谈起独立思 考和人格。   棍棒之下出孝子式   热衷于虎爸狼妈的推崇,不打不成才”、“棍棒之下出孝子”“三天不打上房揭瓦”“三句好话不如一马棒”等等,我们传统的打子秘籍就这样传了下来,一部经典武侠连续剧才刚刚开头,接下来被棍棒打出来的父母们依然棍棒着自己的孩子,子子孙孙无穷匮也。   人有多大胆,地有多大产的唯心式    201610 24 1435917.jpg   没有做不到,只有想不到,心有多大,舞台就有多大,勤能补拙,天道酬勤,于是很多人用美好的年华和自己不擅长的东西死磕,呕心沥血了都。结果只能一生遗 憾。 另外这种极致的推崇,让人没有敬畏,没有禁忌,开山挡海,战天斗地无所不能,结果就没有结果了,请看祖国的大屏幕。更主要这种思想教育出来的人,更贪婪, 欲望更大。   父母是职称式   好像任何一个不成熟、不完美的人,只要晋升成为父母,就可以一言九鼎,说一不二,否则就是大逆不道。所以在和孩子的平等交流上,永远是最熟悉的 陌生人。我们 给这段空档期美名曰一个新名词叛逆期。结果就有两种可能,一种逆来顺受,一种装洋蒜。尤其在性教育上,掩耳盗铃,州官放火,打马虎眼,事实上,互相掩饰, 互相逃避,肚子大了还以为是电视剧上女主脚对着镜子恶心两次就过去了。父母这个称呼只是你婚姻生活交话费送的意外惊喜,你不是道德和才智的制高点和标杆, 你甚至不如你的孩子更完美更成熟,降降身段,或许才能触摸到真实和实际。   中国式家长需要一次集体反思,不管年轻还是年老,这是一次救赎,为了自己也为了儿女。除此之外别无他法。坐下来听听他们的声音,给他们成长的时间。     想要了解最新教育资讯,请教教育困惑、分享教育经验与心得吗?那就关注新浪微博@新浪浙江教育,反映你的诉求和发现;或关注公众号:教育资讯一点通(zj_edu);或加入新浪浙江家长会,官方互动QQ群:62210056。了解更多留学资讯,请加入新浪浙江留学帮帮团qq群:280980058。 更多资讯请扫二维码 浙江教育资讯一点通相关的主题文章: